Every post-Twitter textbased Social Network has some very stupid prejudices about the other post-Twitter textbased Social Network.
And if you try Mastodon, give the Mona App a chance and please copy some features ;-)
Yea, it’s not one thing, plenty of different kinds over there, which is the point of an actually functioning federation (which BlueSky is yet to grapple with). Plenty of awesome peeps too!
But IMO, what the system provides and what many want/need are at odds. It’s an underperforming system IMO.